At UMKC, students like Sharae Shaheed (B.A. ’25) are redefining what success looks like and proving it’s never too late to expand your world.

Shaheed is a first-generation college student, mother and recent Spanish graduate who discovered study abroad isn’t just for traditional students; it’s for anyone ready to say yes to opportunity.

Why did you choose to study Spanish?

Spanish has been something I’ve been drawn to since I was a teenager. Growing up in California, I was surrounded by the language and culture. It always stayed with me.

I didn’t pursue it right away, but eventually I realized I needed to go back to what I was genuinely passionate about. Studying Spanish felt like stepping into something that was always meant for me.

And then you got the opportunity to study abroad in Spain?

I almost didn’t go. Between finances, responsibilities and being a parent, it felt like too much.

But support made the difference: scholarships, university resources and encouragement from my family. The turning point was my son telling me, “There’s no way you’re not going to Spain.” That gave me the confidence to fully commit to the experience.

Tell us more about those resources.

Financial Aid played a huge role. That funding helped make study abroad possible.

The advisors and faculty who took the time to understand my situation and help me navigate a path forward were also important. That level of support makes a real difference, especially for students balancing multiple responsibilities.

How was the experience when you finally got to Spain?

It was incredible and a bit overwhelming in the best way. Being immersed in Spain’s history and culture was something you can’t replicate in a classroom. One of the most rewarding parts was finally feeling like I was learning Spanish at the right level. Everything clicked in a way it hadn’t before.

It also felt surprisingly familiar. The environment, public transportation and pace of life reminded me of where I grew up. It felt like everything came full circle.

How else did studying abroad impact you beyond the classroom?

It gave me space to mentally and physically reset.

I’ve spent years in survival mode, and this was the first time I could truly step back and focus on myself. Even something as simple as walking every day had a major impact on my health.

It was a reminder that education isn’t just academic. It’s personal growth, too.

What would you say to other non-traditional students considering study abroad?

Don’t count yourself out. Your journey might look different, and you may have to plan around more responsibilities. That doesn’t mean the opportunity isn’t for you. If you’re willing to take the step, it can change your perspective in ways you never imagined.